Sacred Love: Make Your Home A Sanctuary For Love; Part II
Friday, September 14th, 2007By Christopher Walker 14. Watch out for spooks In Sydney, at the Quarantine station in Manly, it is the most perfect retreat centre, overlooking the whole vista of Sydney Harbour, probably the best view in Sydney. But Aboriginal people will not go there, and anyone who does, spends the whole night in fear. I ran some retreats there and didnt tell people about those Ghosts, but in the morning nobody had slept a wink. It was so spooky. In New York, where the World Trade centre collapsed, there is grief in that place. It is a very unwise location to build a building now. You can become very aware of the energy left behind in your house, or the energy that comes from your neighbors. One relationship I had, my partner bought a new home and I was not prepared to stay there. 15. Food carries with it, the energy of the cook. If a couple is arguing while one of them cooks a meal, anyone who eats that meal will experience the thoughts and feelings of the cook in the food prepared for them. How a meal turns out is not only about the level of skill the cook possesses, or the ingredients, but also what they were experiencing and thinking when they prepared and made it. If the cooks mood was irritated, grumbling, or depressed, the final state of the food will express this lack of presence and loving preparation. 16. Nutrition. I once stayed on a fly through visit with my cousin who lived in Perth, Australia. He was a night shift mortician, with a wagon in the driveway, ready to go out and collect people who died. He was the funniest man, but drank a lot; I think it was to deal with the job. We went for pizza one night and took the wagon. One the way home, pizza on my lap, I asked him why there was so much rattling in the back. He informed me that there was a dead person in there, because he usually waited for a couple of people before he took them to the morgue. To say the least, I didnt eat the pizza. 17. Draw the line between work and home. In one home I visited there was so little respect for the energy of love in the relationship that the husband would walk in the door talking on the mobile phone even though he was already late home for dinner. Unable to greet his waiting family, hed wave to them, point to the phone as if it were some sort of God, go straight upstairs, change out of his business suit, come down stairs, and still on the phone, sit down to begin his meal. Before he arrived, the whole family was at peace and enjoying their evening under the loving care of the mother. Then, when he and whoever he was talking to came in the door, the whole home changed. 18. Be discerning about Home help. The people who help you maintain your home also have energy that can affect the loving space in which you live. Someone who irons your shirt and is filled with hate, affects you. A person who cleans the home with scant regard for the affect of their energy is polluting the home. Like someone in an office who is unable to affect their mood, and who chooses to poison others with their aggression. One lady I consulted to bought her mother along who was very ill into her home, helped her mother, and absolutely ruined her relationship. 19. Silence and a time of just being is a wonderful gift to any family. In a home that values love, a daily half hour of sitting quietly would be highly beneficial. Intimacy and love cannot survive in a home where stimulation is continuously produced. In fact, thats how people deliberately avoid intimacy. This idea can be difficult with kids, because it requires parental discipline, television going off, computer games shut down, game boys off, phone off the hook, mobile phones disconnected, the CD player silenced, the dog shut out, and no food to distract. So, maybe a hybrid is possible, a compromised version. 20. People become as you treat them. In your home, banish criticism. Always search for ways to improve, to compliment, to see the bright side. Try in your home, to be a centre of goodness in the world. No matter what, in your home, defend your loved one and your children from the judgments of others. Defend your lover from friends who would condemn them. Speak only goodness about the world. Do not become trapped in the victim mindset. Remember, if we call a simple person wise, in time, they will become wiser. If we treat a person with romance, then they become romantic. A child who makes mistakes and is encouraged to keep trying, affirmed for small victories, learns to take risks and set high goals. A partner who always hears complaints will eventually lose their libido. The words we speak become the truth we live, we must be very, very mindful in our home. 21. Save the last dance for me. Romance is revealed in your energy. If you walk in the door of your home and you are exhausted from everything you do outside your relationship, then what chance is there for vitality and love? Now we need to be real. In the first months of your relationship, youd save energy because you wanted to make an impression, be good, and alive. Then for some reason, because we are in a relationship, we think its a done deal and become all self important. The most vital time of your day needs to be the time you spend with your lover - they are not your recuperation machine, they are your focus. “My aspiration is not only to have a beautiful home. If that was so I would have that beautiful home. My aspiration is to follow my inner truth, expand myself beyond what I now know as possible, my aspiration is to create. Part of my creativity includes creating a sacred space, my home provides those I love with comfort, and love. Caring for the space we live in, filling it with comfort, love, beauty, creating a power base for my family- a space to be nourished with food, beautiful objects, books, sensuality, music. All this is important to meI could experience a multitude of different spaces however I would always need a space, a beautiful sanctuary for my dreams.” Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. 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